So that we won't live in a pig stye, I try to keep to this schedule no matter how I feel. It is based on Sharon White's Legacy of Home blog. I often read through this to motivate me, but for really fibro brain fog days, I have highlighted the chores for quick reading. I have modified it a little for my own home...
WAKE UP: BLOODS, JAB AND MEDS FEED XENA
1. There is the breakfast hour, which includes tea-time. First we prepare the meal and set a table. I often set up a tray- table and sit in the parlour before anyone else is awake. I am an early riser so I have my tea while the sun is just beginning to rise. I enjoy this quiet time of resting from the brief bit of morning work.
Later, when the family has their eggs and toast, or fresh baked muffins with fruit, it is time to do the dishes. We wash the table and the counters and do the sweeping. All the work of tidying and making things neat are part of the breakfast duties.
2. Often, during the morning hours, we do the laundry or the dusting and vacuuming. Each day has its special work. It may be Wednesday is for washing floors. Perhaps Thursday is for cleaning the bathroom. The mid-morning hours are a good time for many of us to do these special duties of making a home look pretty. LIST WORK FOR THE DAY
3. The Lunch hour is such a wonderful time to stop and rest. We put out a fresh, clean tablecloth. I love my white-and-teal checkered cloth. It looks so homey and old fashioned. We can set up our plates and napkins. We can do this even if we are just serving grilled cheese sandwiches, pickles, and chips! It makes the lunch - work like a reward when we sit at that pretty table and rest and eat while we enjoy the family. Next we do the sweeping and the dishes, much like we did in the morning.
4. The dinner hour is such a precious time in the day. I often start working on the evening meal at 3 in the afternoon. I work slowly and take lots of breaks. Sometimes I peel potatoes and start getting a little casserole ready to bake. Other times I might do much of the work for a pan of lasagna. I like to put these pans of prepared food in the refrigerator and then just take them out to bake when it is just about dinner time. That way I get a great deal of rest between all the work. CLOSE THE BLINDS AND LIGHT THE LAMPS. BLOODS JAB MEDS
Sitting with the family and hearing the blessing (or the prayer before the meal) is such a peaceful experience. It is lovely to just sit and enjoy dinner at the end of a long day. Then the work of tidying, doing the dishes, and sweeping the floor happens. We make everything look neat and pretty. But I do not like to rush. I do not want to just "get the work over-with." I take my time and go at a steady pace. The work of cleaning and accomplishing the beautiful work of making a neat home makes me happy. It also brings peace. SHOWER OR BATHE
These four tasks of homemaking do not take a great deal of effort. They may seem simple and ordinary. They may seem mundane. But if we dress up in something pretty, wearing an apron, and keeping our hair up in a pretty style, we may find ourselves enjoying the work. I have an old blue-and-white gingham apron that I love to wear. It is getting old and ragged. I will have to make a new one this coming fall. I need a fresh supply of lovely aprons to wear as I do the housekeeping.
When we look extra nice as we do our work, we can find joy in the labor. Doing the little tasks of keeping house, each day, with a feeling of contentment, will bring a true feeling of comfort and happiness to the family. It will help them feel welcome and loved in a happy and simple home.
