Wednesday 10 April 2024
A permanent thing
Sunday 7 April 2024
It's gonna be a PJ's day.
Wednesday 6 March 2024
It was good while it lasted!
Wednesday 28 February 2024
He's getting very rusty!
Wednesday 21 February 2024
I am not lazy!
Usually by the end of the day, you will find me resting in my recliner rocker or in bed. Especially when I have a fibromyalgia flare or a bad day with breathing difficulties.
Apart from the usual taunts such as "but you don't look sick" and the need to validate my need for rest, I find that the latest taunt is "you are so lazy!"
But appearances can be deceiving. If I were truly lazy I wouldn't even be resting or pacing myself in order to do a household task or cook a meal. I wouldn't even be entertaining the thought of cleaning or cooking.
People presuming to know my situation are often getting it all wrong. And it used to hurt. But these days, I have decided to let it run off my back like water off a duck.
I no longer let those unkind remarks get to me... Chris and I know the truth and that's all that matters.
Like looking well when I feel like death warmed over, resting to enable a task to be done does not mean I am indolent or don't care about my husband or my home.
Taking care of myself in order to take care of others may appear selfish. But nothing can be further from the truth: I am not lazy!
Saturday 10 February 2024
Xena's still upset with me!
For those of you who follow my sister blog, Morning Cuppas With Glenys, you may recall that recently I had to rescue a sparrow from our little white cat, Xena's mouth.
Although it's been 2 weeks since that rescue, my relationship with her has gone south! She ignores me. When she lays on the floor in front of me, she keeps her back to me and if she walks past me on my computer desk, she presents her bottom to me as she passes me to drink from her drinking fountain on my desk.
I can't work out why she's so upset and why her grudge has continued for so long. She is well fed so the bird affair must have been for sheer pleasure of the hunt. And although the hunt was successful, she didn't get to enjoy the fruit of it...
Maybe she was trying to please me by bringing this poor bird home like the time she brought home a dead mouse and laid it on my back doorstep.. perhaps my rejection has hurt her feline feelings...
With a very nasty fibromyalgia flare and extreme fatigue, I have been having frequent nana naps and she does still come into bed with me...
But the feeling of companionship is lacking now and I want it back. But how does one say sorry to a cat?
I fear that our relationship is permanently damaged and I am fully expecting her to put out her tongue at me to air her feelings..
I am checking her little claws as she sometimes accidentally scratches me in the night when she's curled up beside me.
Come to think of it, maybe it's not accidental- maybe she's still fuming... I will never know. What I do know though, is that Xena's still upset with me!
Saturday 3 February 2024
I am looking up!
Wednesday 17 January 2024
It's all too much
So recently I have had chest pain in angina and breathing problems coupled with what I thought was fatigue from an ongoing fibromyalgia flare.
My blood pressure sky rocketed, requiring a visit to a cardiologist who ordered an echocardiogram. My general practitioner told me if the results were bad, he would contact me. And he did.
I got the call last Friday telling me to make an appointment for a phone consult so I ended up speaking to the doctor on Monday. He told me I have heart failure due to Pulmonary Hypertension.
There is no cure for it but there are some treatments. I am already on blood thinners which I will stay on as PH can cause blood clots in the lungs. I already take 7 blood pressure tablets a day.
I often have felt dizzy and this is another symptom of PH and I feel like I can't get enough air in at times. The time will come when I will probably need oxygen at home.
Forget about exercise- I nearly collapse with exhaustion after walking up our long passage to answer the door.
I will know more tomorrow when I see the doctor in person. This is needful because he wants to check out the swelling in my feet, ankles and legs. I suspect I have fluid in my abdomen too. It hurts and is tight like a drum.
I had a blood test yesterday to check on my kidney function and this will be a regular thing.
Lately it's been one thing after another and I am a tad depressed. Prayers would be much appreciated. It's all too much!
Tuesday 9 January 2024
When an aspirin won't fix it
When it comes to Fibromyalgia many people – men and women – have reported a reduction in their libido due to the sometimes chronic nature of the condition. Sometimes Fibromyalgia sufferers can feel perfectly well and are willing to make love but a ‘flare-up’ can put paid to such willingness.
The sheer unpredictability of the condition is such that it can leave one or both partners feeling as though they are not wanted and that perhaps the other partner is making excuses; this is simply not the case.
Sufferers of Fibromyalgia, especially in its chronic form, find it difficult to make love because of the levels of pain they have to endure. Making love requires a considerable amount of bodily movement and if the trigger points flare up then this movement can be painful or at the very least uncomfortable.
Another problem with Fibromyalgia is the way in which an individual’s body weight can fluctuate; this too has consequences on the libido, making the sufferer feel as though they are unable to perform and instilling in them a lack of self-confidence which manifests itself as a lack of libido.
It is important to emphasise that a lack of libido can be turned around either by reducing stress and anxiety or by changing one’s daily routine. Your doctor will not necessarily prescribe any medication to help combat this problem as there is not really much that can be done physically about the condition.
I think it is very important to reassure your husband that you still love him even though you are hurting too much for intimacy. In areas of chronic pain and illness, communication must be open so that there are no silent doubts about whether you as a wife, still love your husband.
So important is this area of intimacy in marriage, that I would suggest that you be willing to try to accommodate your husband at any reasonable time, instead of just at night when you are understandably tired out. If lovemaking is simply impossible, remember to caress and cuddle your husband. author unknown
Remember to be demonstrative and vocal with letting your husband know you love him. He will most likely be feeling anxious that he can't help you in your suffering. Fibromyalgia flares can't be fixed by taking a few aspirins.
Saturday 30 December 2023
Ya gotta laugh
I got some of things I wanted to do done, but alas, it came with a cost. I have another flare of fibromyalgia.
I can hardly move and hurt everywhere. It doesn't help that we have thunderstorms on the horizon either. So today I have only washed my dishes and I will cook dinner. It's all I can manage.
All our bedding is washed and dried and when our cleaner comes Monday, she will put more clean sheets on. I just did the minkie blankets and our doonas.
I must say that drying the minkie blankets in the dryer has given them a slightly grey tinge, but they are still soft and smell great. Most importantly, they are clean.
My plan for the remainder of the day is to cook bangers and mash for dinner. I will take some Tramadol because my knees are hurting as well as the usual fibro pain.
Sunday 24 December 2023
It is what it is!
Saturday 25 November 2023
When the fog clears, tea's on the list.
Friday 11 August 2023
I can't believe it!
The last five days have been a dream come true! I have been sleeping better and I have woken up with spoons!
I have been very careful to keep pacing myself as I don't want to get a rebound flare due to burnout. So far, so good!
It's been about 22 years since I have felt this well. I am very grateful for the respite from pain.
So unusual is this new found energy that sees me operating as a "normal" person, that it feels "abnormal"
But today, I will enjoy this new energy and thank God for it. If it wasn't me I would want to know my secret- no secret.. but in any case, I can't believe it!
Tuesday 1 August 2023
Spoons are a distant memory.
Lately I have had a flare of my fibro flare. It's resulted in the most epic fatigue that it seems just breathing is an effort.
It's actually been going on for months. I keep referring to it as a flare, but today I realised it's a flare that never gives up. It's eternal- with no discernable beginnning and no end in sight.
I can sleep for 12 hours and still have no energy.
We eat good nutrional food. I cook everything from scratch, but the ennui and corporeal exhaustion still remain.
I often think if I just have this or another cup of that, it will help me regain some spoons, but unfortunately nothing seems to help. I never got my first wind, let alone catch my second!
My doctor is going to run some tests especially focussing on my thyroid and iron levels. I personally don't think it's that. My iron levels have been consistently high and my thyroid level is normal and has responded to my Thyroxine which I take for hypothyroidism. But I will do the tests anyway.
No, I think fibromyalgia is the culprit for my physical exhaustion. It seems now to be a way of life.
Spoons are a distant memory.
Saturday 15 July 2023
Just living is a physical ordeal.
Thursday 8 June 2023
You better go check yours out!
So as you know I have been having problems staying awake. Even after 8 hours of sleep, I battle keeping my eyes open during the day.
This has had me perplexed and I have blamed my fibromyalgia, which still may be a part of what I have been struggling with, but certainly not all.
Going through my refrigerator last week, I sorted through the side top shelf on the door where I keep Chris's insulin injections and my thyroxin. Checking the dates, I was shocked to see that my thyroxin was out of date by two months!
I quickly discarded them and put a new week of indate tablets in my pill container for the week. No wonder I have had peeling skin off my face, hair loss and fatigue...
It's been 6 days so far with little change, but I would expect the synthetic thyroid hormone to build up in my system soon... I am hoping I don't have to wait long.
I am so switched on with medications and foods and so on that have a limited shelf life, but this time, it fell through the cracks...
Considering I have been battling a long term fibromyalgia flare for about 10 months... yes nearly 11 months since moving here, I guess I have to cut myself some slack. Nevertheless, when I discovered the out of date meds, I did tell myself that I am an old sausage! And I am! You better go check yours out!
Sunday 23 April 2023
A spoon is a spoon!
So my polymyalgia rheumatica has kicked in again, and coupled with a fibromyalgia flare, the pain is just excruciating.
I have decided the pain warrants some Prednisolone so I took 25mg of it these last two mornings. It makes me feel a bit antsy but I can now bend my neck, lift my arms to brush my hair, and the pain around my temples and headache has gone, along with the TMJ.
It is risky taking Prenisolone, but I had to weigh up the pros and cons and decided that I simply couldnt bear the pain any longer.
A happy consequence of it is the fake energy has made me channel it into housekeeping and my house hasnt looked better!
Today I have run the Roombas, washed the clothes and cleaned my kitchen. I am going to do sausages in the slow cooker for dinner tonight.
The steroids are elevating my blood sugars as I am diabetic. It's making me feel drowsy. I can see a nana nap in my future if the Pred will allow me to sleep.
I really dont care where I get my energy from these days: fake energy from steroids is good. After all, a spoon is a spoon!